Come
HOME
to
YOURSELF
Stand in
YOUR TRUTH
Embody
YOUR POWER
Come
HOME
to
YOURSELF
Stand in
YOUR TRUTH
Embody
YOUR POWER


Welcome to
Bliss Science:
PhD-Level Relationship Chemistry, for men and couples in tech who want a passionate relationship.
You've built a world-class business (or three)...
Now it's time for a world-class relationship.
After all your success, your life project is building a relationship of mutual respect, passion, and growth.
I work with high net worth men and couples who require discretion and want a straight-shooter.
I can help you if you are:
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Ready to get the passion back in your relationship
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Single and dating, ready to find your true match
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A couple wanting deep, soul-drenched intimacy
You are really the safest place to work through the toughest issues. Thank you.
- J. N., CEO
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Why work with me?
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Because my clients get results. Period.
I am a PhD scientist, tech founder, and professionally-certified coach who spent 4+ years living in spiritual communities - and the last 10 years obsessively studying relationships, the non-dual view, meditation, and sexuality with the world's best teachers.
I bring my lived experience to this work: my own divorce, 8 years failing at dating, and now building a damn hot relationship with the partner of my dreams.
My executive relationship coaching has helped 500+ powerful men and couples to:
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Get the passion back in their relationship (and avoid an expensive divorce)
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Recover confidence after divorce
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Get out of 'Nice Guy' territory and be irresistible to women
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Find the dream woman who deeply 'meets' them
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-> The logic and the magic of relating

My work surprises men in tech because it:
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1. Loves your logical, left-brained mind. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater.
2. Uses the non-dual view to stop the blame game and antidote zero-sum relating.
3. Is a space where you can work out some seriously dark shit. Because we were all fed crap to inflame the gender wars.
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4. Uses neuroscience, behavioral science, and decades of research (plus a sprinkle of wonder) to create real change
5. Gets results by working smart, not hard: 10 min per day will change your life and make her melt.
â–½ For Men who are Single and Dating
-> Find the woman your friends don't have to stage an intervention with you about

If you're single and successful, let's be honest: your dating life got neglected while building and exiting your companies.
How do you find the right woman - and what do you do about the inevitable wealth disparity (or is it inevitable?)
Dating when wealthy is a whole different ballgame.
The stakes are high if you get distracted by the cocktail of attraction chemicals flooding your brain.
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I'm in your corner, so that you find great women, bring a tantric dating A-game, and spot when things are going wrong (before it's too late).
It's high time to stop testing your 'relational code' in production, isn't it?
I integrate both scientific and spiritual approaches. You'll learn to:
â–½ Show up as a powerful presence that women love (no more worries about being seen as 'creepy')
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â–½ Fix your ‘upper limit’ so you can actually receive the pleasure and connection you're longing for
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â–½ Create high-quality relationships across the board in your life (with your partner, kids, parents, boss, and friends)
Whether you're single and seeking or in a relationship,
this is your invitation to build your passionate relationship.
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Meet Your Coach
Hi, I'm an MIT-trained PhD chemist-turned relationship expert (a different kind of 'chemistry', you might say), and I had to be dragged kicking and screaming to 'personal growth'. I loved relying on logic, defending myself, and being right (who doesn't?!). But, both my professional and personal relationships were stressful, and my marriage failed. It was only after I lost everything - house, marriage, career - that I discovered the playbook on modern relating. So I made one for you.
I created my Bliss Science method to get you results. It's a hat tip to both science and non-dual tantra (which is not what you're thinking it is). You need a dev and staging arena for your dating/relational skills. This is it.
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I specialize in helping left-brained visionaries in tech, founders with successful exits, and high net worth couples cross the divide from the head to the heart without feeling like you want to crawl in a hole and hide.
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Look, as a debutante from West Texas who grew up among guns, god, oil, and cattle, I know all this relationship stuff can be embarrassing, but it's even more embarrassing to feel like an imposter because you made a few million but your wife has iced you out. Let me help you, you won't regret it.

What to expect when you work with me
Clients have described me as ‘fierce and fearless.’
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â–½ The Bliss Science Approach: 1) Identity Change, 2) Relational IQ, 3) Wise and Sacred Sexuality.
â–½ Stop needing to be 'better' - instead: radical acceptance of the truth of your experience of life - no more beating yourself up.
â–½ Consistent, loving regard and practices to give you a 'new normal' - a new baseline, new reflexes that deepen connection with her.
â–½ Direct Access to Dr. Jessica Gold via messaging, and 24/7 support via her AI.
â–½ Satisfy your intellectual curiosity with high-quality knowledge. Challenge your unconscious narratives.
â–½ A non-shaming space, where you can articulate your unspoken truths.
â–½ Body-based practices for skeptics - that finally bring relief from having to figure everything out with your mind.
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View these six months as an immersive research project to develop your Relational IQ and your dream relationship. You'll be guided by me, an MIT-trained scientist who went off the deep end and became a 'Relationship Chemist.'


My work is for men and couples who value time over money and want their kids to grow up with an example of parents who were hot for each other.
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If you're ready to meet me and find out how this work can debug your life, you're invited to schedule a call.
Seriously and appropriate inquiries only.
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Business and Passion:
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Join the hundreds of men and couples committed passionate relationships - and get a peak into what I mean when I say I'm a 'relationship rebel,' in my newsletter.
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(PS. I can't stand it when people send newsletters every single day - none of that!).