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Dr. Jessica Gold

Executive Relationship Chemist | Tech Founder | PhD Scientist 

I’m an MIT-trained PhD chemist and neuroscientist-turned relationship expert (a different kind of 'bonding' and 'chemistry', you might say).

Before MIT, I grew up in the desert of West Texas, among cattle, oil rigs, guns, and conservative religion. I've crossed many divides in my life.

Like many of us in STEM, despite 10 years in academia, I never had a single class on healthy relationships, or how to be a healthy human.

 

Repressing my body and emotions for decades led to crippling anxiety, stressful relationships, and chronic fatigue. So, I left my academic career to go say 'yes' to what scared me and heal.

 

During this time, my marriage ended in a painful divorce, and I spent 4+ years living in spiritual communities in Asia, awakening to the non-dual view of reality.

 

I have now been studying meditation, relationships, and personal growth with the world’s best teachers for the past decade.

 

I founded my first company, Bliss Science, because I wish someone had taught me all this before my divorce. I’m also the co-founder of the AI company Digital Wisdom, a TedX speaker, and CrossFit enthusiast.

 

After traversing the dating minefield for years after my divorce, I’m grateful to be building both a tech company and a dream relationship with my partner, Tevye, and our dog, Brownie.​​​​​​

My certifications & teachers:

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International Coaching Federation (PCC level)

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VITA Sex, Love, and Relationships (Layla Martin) 

 

Process-Oriented Psychology (David Bedrick) 

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Emotional Mastery (Jenny Hale)

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Relational Life Therapy (Terry Real)

 

Embodied Relationship Salon (John Wineland & Kendra Cunov) 

 

Non-dual Shaiva Tantra Immersion (Christopher Wallis)

 

Meditation & Non-dual philosophy (Paul Muller-Ortega) 

WHY I SPECIALIZE IN WORKING WITH MEN & COUPLES IN TECH:​

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"Health, love, and your mission, in that order. Nothing else matters."  - Naval Ravikant

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Like many of the men I work with, I was all-mission, all the time, for 15 years. Health and love were accessory. And it led me to burn out at age 33 and leave my scientific career - after a PhD and postdoctoral fellowship.

 

Today, after 10 years of studying personal growth, I'm on a mission to help men and women love each other.

 

You're probably here because you've realized success in business is hollow without success in love. 

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You can have both.

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I chose my training to focus on working with men because:

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1. Men have been underserved in personal growth, yet women are hungry for men doing this work.

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2. If we want world-class relationships, there has to be empathy and collaboration, not shaming. 

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3. As a PhD scientist from MIT who was logic-first and skeptical of somatic, subjective, or spiritual realms, I have often related more to men's experiences.

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Let me tell you a secret:

 

Women love it when you are powerful.

 

The key is - relational power doesn't come from power-over. It comes from inner power. Relational IQ.

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You can be a Relationship Rebel and choose self-awareness - or you can follow the status quo of acrimonious relating and dead bedrooms.

 

You can be a Power Couple and leave a legacy of love for your kids - or you can continue the same old way, getting the same old results.

  

Recovering from shame, denial, and repression is the name of the game. We all face it when we walk this path. 

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The paradigm-shifting wisdom of the tantric yogis was to value both intellectual understanding as well as subjective embodied experience. Each refines the other.

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Just because you turn toward your emotional world with curiosity doesn't mean you throw out reason.

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Every man and couple who wants a life-long passionate relationship must at some point take this journey.

 

Join us.


(Based in the San Francisco Bay Area)

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