The Problem with Keeping a 50/50 Score in Your Relationship You’re stuck in a zero-sum game. If she ‘wins’, you lose, and vice versa. The...

Are you unconsciously sabotaging your relationship happiness? I have seen many couples in my practice who come in mired in complaints...

How to Repair Your Relationship In a previous article  I talked about how the sign of a great relationship isn’t that you ‘never fight’ -...

“Our relationship isn’t perfect, but…” Here’s the thing: Perfection isn’t the goal. It never was. If by ‘perfect’ you mean ‘we never...

Want to know how to keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship? Here’s the truth: It’s not about scheduled intimacy or expensive...

You’d never build a business empire without an A-team of advisors. So why are you winging it in your relationship - something that is...

The man I was talking to on Zoom was worried. Things weren’t going well with his girlfriend. “Everything else comes first before me — her...

“But, Jessica, isn’t asking for what I want ‘needy’?” This is the #1 most common objection I get from men in sexless marriage when I...

For a moment, let’s stipulate that these common narratives about relating are ‘right’: 1. Asking for what you want in a relationship is...

Turn Her On by Doing What You Love It’s true what the research says: It’s ridiculously hot to see my partner in his element, his ‘zone of...

What's the #1 block to having healthy relationships? The #1 block to having healthy relationships that I see repeatedly is equating ‘...

How to reignite the passion with your wife If you want to be more attractive to your wife, there’s a common misunderstanding that may be...

Wondering how to fix your sexless marriage? Get on board with the ‘both-and.’ Yep, that’s the trick. Wondering what in the world that...

Science-backed Winning Strategies in Relating In my last article, I wrote about research-backed ‘losing strategies’ in relating ,...

You don’t have to guess what doesn’t work. The data is there. The data is in! From both research and half a century of clinical work with...

Tired of all those articles promising to ‘spice up’ your love life? Bored with passionate encounters and deep connections? I put together...

At least at work problems get solved. But at home? Not so much. “Relating was confusing and distressing, so I avoided it,” Seth, founder...

When it comes down to how to awaken your wife's desire, romantic dinners, flowers, and lingerie aren’t anywhere on the list . You’re...

There’s really only one thing you need to know. One of the biggest frustrations my clients (who are mostly men) come to me with is how to...

When it comes to how to fix your sexless marriage - without convincing, arguing, blaming or making anyone wrong... It’s really not rocket...