Come
HOME
to
YOURSELF
Stand in
YOUR TRUTH
Embody
YOUR POWER
Come
HOME
to
YOURSELF
Stand in
YOUR TRUTH
Embody
YOUR POWER
You’re a man of vision, who wants it all:
Founding, leading, and investing in billion-dollar companies - and a passionate, deep, love
with your wife too.
This is for you.
Bring play, peace, and passion, back to your marriage
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You're tired of feeling like you're failing in your relationship - and ready to be a true Power Couple.
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I founded Bliss Science to support high-impact men in tech to deeply thrive in relationship.
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A life of success in both the boardroom and the bedroom IS possible...
(because life is really all about 'bonding', isn't it? - take it from me, a PhD organic chemist).
"I became successful because I thought that was what it was all about. But then my relationship suffered and none of that mattered."
Seth, CEO
My clients have faced:
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​Decades of sexless marriage
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‘Living as roommates’
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Feeling ‘like an imposter’ in their success at work because their relationship at home is failing
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Feeling ‘never enough’ despite bending over backwards
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Feeling ‘last on the list’ in the family
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Their own lack of desire/sexual shame - and a high-desire wife
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Habitual fighting and challenging communication
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Coping with trauma, personality disorders, and disparate attachment styles
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Challenges ‘performing’ in intimacy
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Negotiating non-monogamy
“All of us know the feeling of being stuck at some unhappy stage of a relationship. Total darkness, the feeling there is no positive way out. Working with Jessica showed me how to get unstuck, from learning about frameworks unknown to me, as only a researcher could explain, to physically experiencing my own energies within, and how to release their power.
You will end up realizing that there is so much still to learn, and so many doors waiting to be opened you just didn't know existed. A transformative experience, from an amazing human, highly recommended.”
- Tech Founder & Investor, San Francisco
Serious and appropriate inquiries only.
​The bottom line is...your relationship affects your bottom line.​
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Research from Harvard Business School shows that 99% of your life's success is dictated by the top 5 people you spend the most time with.
And the ONE person you spend the most time with - your romantic partner, usually - has more impact on your success than the other 4 combined.
If you're facing anguish at home, it's going to prevent your highest success at work,
by millions, or in the case of power couples, hundreds of millions of dollars.
I’m here to be in your corner so that your romantic relationship adds rocket fuel to your success - not lead weights.
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The 3 Pillars of Bliss Science
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Since I know that men in STEM like structure (as do I) here's an example of how I apply my method:
â–½ Changing Your Identity
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Develop a foundation of self-compassion (based on research)
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Center in your most powerful self
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Stand up for yourself in a way she respects
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Take responsibility without self-blame or being 'wrong'
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Create secure attachment to draw her in
â–½ Relational Freedom
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Liberate unconscious limiting beliefs
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Heal and release mother/father/caregiver dynamics
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Handle your own emotions, and hers, with skill
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Defuse communication minefields with neuroscience
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Invite her into a compelling vision for your relationship
â–½ Intimate Adventure
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Antidote sabotaging narratives about women, sex, and relating
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Hone non-sexual intimacy skills that make her want more
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Be bold, assertive, and light her fire the way she secretly desires
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Incorporate neo-tantra/kink into your erotic palette (optional)
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You can be confident, at peace, and desired in your relationship. Truly...
How it works:​
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Choose between a monthly retainer ($7K/mo) or a 6-month immersion ($40K)
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Receive both 1:1 sessions and direct access to Jessica via messaging, M-F
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In-person retreat in the San Francisco Bay
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Deep dive Life Charting and Goals session to begin
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Extra 30-min phone call, as needed
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Access to Jessica Gold AI 24/7 and a private podcast feed of curated teachings.
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In-depth personal assessment, weekly accountability (if desired), and quantification of progress
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"I am a mental health professional and meditation teacher with over 30 years of professional experience.
Jessica has opened up doorways that I didn't know existed.
I feel more integrated and fully present and whole than at any other point. I am responding in a more genuine manner with both men and women.
I am no longer afraid of my sexuality and I am no longer needlessly being "nice" with unspoken expectations with my wife and in my life.
One of the many things I love about Jessica is that she is fierce and fearless in standing with me on this journey."
Michael, Forensic Psychologist
How I Get You Results​
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After a PhD in chemistry and 4 years living in a spiritual community, I created Bliss Science to combine both the scientific and the non-dual approach to relationships.
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I use methods that therapists are neither trained in nor authorized to use.
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One-off sessions are not available.
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My work is comprehensive, high-touch, and has been applied with over 500 men and couples.
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All coaching is done via Zoom or walk and talks outside (weather permitting).
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The 6-month immersion includes an in-person intensive in the San Francisco Bay Area.
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This is an accelerated, results-oriented process:
I work with most clients for 6 months to 2 years; some choose to keep me as a guide for years.
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My approach draws from Parts Work, Non-dual Tantra, Process-Oriented Psychology, and Relational Life Therapy.
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Because without love - what’s all your success for?
About Dr. Jessica
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Hello, I'm glad you read this far. I’m an MIT-trained PhD chemist and neuroscientist.
Like many of us in STEM, despite 10 years in academia, I never had a single class on healthy relationships, or how to be a healthy human.
Facing anxiety and chronic fatigue, I left my academic career. When my marriage ended in a painful divorce, I spent 4+ years living in spiritual communities in Asia, awakening to the non-dual view of reality.
I have now been studying sex, love, and relationships with the world’s best teachers for a decade.
I founded my first company, Bliss Science, because I wish someone had taught me all this before my divorce. Today I’m also the co-founder of the AI company Digital Wisdom, a TedX speaker, meditator, and Crossfit enthusiast.
I’m grateful to be building the relationship of my dreams with my partner, Tevye, and our dog, Brownie.